By: Dale Weckbacher
Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who
mourn,
for they will be comforted.
for they will be comforted.
(CSB)
Anyone that has experienced the loss of someone they love
would hardly consider mourning a blessing.
In fact, I do not recommended confronting someone in mourning by telling
them how blessed they are. Instead, it
is best to let them know you are praying for them. However, there is blessing in mourning when
we find comfort in the Lord.
When entering the synagogue leaders house in Luke
8:40-56 Jesus encountered those mourning the death of the synagogue leader’s
daughter. His words to them must have
seemed cruel at the time but after seeing the girl raised from the dead, they found
comfort. The blessing therefore is not
in the mourning but in the comfort that comes from the Lord. However, when mourning we normally do not see
the one whose death we mourn coming back to life leading to the question, how
can we find comfort from the Lord when the one we love is gone?
1)
If they had accepted Christ we will see them
again (2
Corinthians 5:6-8) – I lost my dad in 2001 and my mom three years
later. While I still miss them,
especially during Christmas, I have comfort in knowing they were Godly parents
and I will see them again when I meet the Lord.
However, what about comfort for those who have died not knowing the Lord? While it is easy to blame ourselves during
these times, believing we should have done more to bring them to Christ, we
must remember coming to Christ is a personal decision and that the seed of the
Gospel is not always accepted (Matthew
13:1-9). Since it is the heart of
God that none parish (2
Peter 3:9) without having the opportunity to receive Christ, we must find
comfort in knowing they heard the gospel but rejected it. While this still saddens our hearts and the
heart of God, we must let this motivate us to move forward in serving Christ,
so others have an opportunity to receive Christ knowing that some of that
Gospel seed will fall on good soil and be accepted (Matthew
13:8).
2)
Their death was part of God’s plan for their
life and it is good (Jeremiah
29:11) – The harsh truth is that all men and women will face death (Hebrews
9:27). This represents the common
event in the lives of all humanity with the exception of those caught up in the
rapture but even they must wait for all those that experienced death to go
first (1
Corinthians 15:51-53). However,
while death is part of God’s plan for everyone’s life, we still have a choice on
where we will spend eternity. Once again
this should serve to motivate us in the church to be a witness to those who do
not know Christ, pointing them to Christ through our words and how we live our
lives. This should motivate us to serve
in our church and provide financial support, so they can reach out to the lost
in their communities. It should also
motivate us to give financial support to missionaries around the world or even serve
as missionaries ourselves if we feel the calling from the Lord.
3)
While in mourning we can reflect on the sin in
our own lives (2
Corinthians 7:10) – When someone we love passes away and goes on to be with
the Lord, our mourning can become a desire to see them again. However, if we have never accepted Christ as
our savior, we must come to grips with the sin in our lives and accept Christ, to
experience reunification with our loved one after our death.
If you are reading this and have never accepted Jesus as
your savior, I invite you to do so now by praying with me,
Dear Lord Jesus, I know I have sinned (Romans
3:23) and know that the penalty for my sin is death (Romans
6:23). I ask you to forgive
me of my sin and cleanse me as you promise in your Word (1
John 1:9). I believe you
died, was buried, and resurrected from the dead and now declare you Lord of my
life.
You now have complete forgiveness of your sins and you will once
again meet all of your loved ones who knew Jesus as savior when they passed
away. I now urge you to tell someone
about what has happened in your life, find a church teaching the Bible so you
can learn more about your restored relationship with your creator, and support
that church financially and with your time so others can experience a restored
relationship with God and find comfort in their mourning.